Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Friday, August 21, 2009
WOW! Have I really not posted anything this month?
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Interesting Notes...
I always:
- try to eat breakfast. The only reason I would miss is if I couldn't get my hands on something edible.
- tell my husband "i love you" before hanging up the phone.
- refer to myself as the "traumatized middle child" -- even though I wasn't (LOL)
- color my hair --due to the amount of grey that has suddenly appeared (how'd that happen?)
- try to encourage my children in whatever activity they want to try.
- feel blessed when I see the loving functional family that I grew up with. Thanks Mom and Dad!
I sometimes:
- wish I were taller.
- long to live in another state.
- think juggling would be a fun activity to master.
- take my kids (and their friends) to toilet paper houses!
- wonder what it would be like to work on a cruise ship.
- think I'm trying to do too much.
- imagine what it would be like to not have to watch what I eat.
I never:
- take my family for granted
- forget a face. Now, a name -- that's different!
- thought I would be turning the big 4-0! Geez, I'm old...
- second-guess when I feel the Holy Spirit laying someone on my heart. I immediately pray for them.
- thought I would find the love of my life...but I did!
- say NO to chocolate.
- thought I would love fish as much as I do.
- want to look back on my life and have regrets.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Living in Fear
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Nick-isms
Upon seeing my nephew, Luke, who is turning 18 next week, he noticed that Luke had grown out a fashionable goatee and beard (he looked really cute!). Here's Nick's comment:
"Don't worry, Luke, I forgot to shave this morning, too!"
How cute is that?!?!?
fondly,
fit
FUN FUN FUN!!
Here's a quick recap:
June: The three older kids had camp (which cost us a small fortune!). The boys went to Panama City, FL for Camp Beach. Jake settled his doubts about salavation (PTL!) and was baptized in the ocean by our Youth Pastor and Senior Pastor. They both came back excited for the Lord and definitely changed. My daughter went to camp as well and was treated extra special given her status as a graduating 6th grader. [I still can't believe she is going into the youth group!] We had Vacation Bible School, were Nick was able to attend for the first time as a graduating Kindergartner. He felt so grown up! Miranda had her week-long stint as a LoneStar Princess with the Miss Texas Pageant and was required to dress up in formal attire and wear her tiara. I'm sure that was difficult for her...NOT! We lost my father-in-law, but we were able to spend some quality time with family which was very theraputic. The month was also filled with various basketball tournaments for my oldest.
July: The older kids have been on vacation with their father and have been able to go to Las Vegas for Jake's teams basketball tournament. Robert and I have been able to do some cosmetic changes around the house and it's looking really good! The kids come back this Friday wherein we leave for a quick vacation to NW Arkansas for my cousin's wedding. We will then spend several days with Mimi and Poppi and all the rest of the family. We will celebrate Nick's 6th birthday while we golf, swim, dance, play games, etc. with the family.
As soon as we return, we will start back to band camp for Tyler, off season basketball for Jake, volleyball tryouts for Miranda and back-to-school shopping for Nick. Not to mention that I'm starting two new courses for my schoolwork. Help!!!! LOL
We have had an AWESOME summer~
fondly,
fit
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Lone Star Princess
Unfortunately, during the very first day of rehersal is when I received the phone call that my FIL had passed away. My Mother-in-law was adamant that she not miss any of her pageant activities since she had been looking forward to this event for months. So, we let her stay with her dad for a few days while we were gone while he made sure she was at all her events. She looked absolutely beautiful! I managed to snag a picture of her while the photographer was taking her portraits (I know--I cheated...).
This was a once-in-a-lifetime experience for her -- one she will NEVER forget! She truly is a princess--whether it's "Lonestar" or not...
Love you, Princess!
fit
Tuesday, July 07, 2009
R.I.P. Bob Teta
Bob's rosary and mass were in Leesville, LA and his burial was in Stigler, OK. Robert's brother, Richard, has been in Iraq, so we had to contact the Red Cross to get him home. He arrived about an hour before the rosary! Things were stressful and emotional, but everything went okay.
I have some pretty interesting stories, but don't have time today to go into. I will post more later.
fondly,
fit
Tuesday, June 09, 2009
Location, Location, Location!
Friday, June 05, 2009
Mid-life Crisis or Creativity?
Now--having said that, I love them "within reason." Some are just plain ugly and offensive---
I was raised by parents who are completely against tattoos. The verse in Leviticus sums it up:
"Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD."
But look what it says in the verse right before that:"Do not cut the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard". According to this standard, is it a sin that my husband shaves his beard and trims his sideburns? ~food for thought......
Anyway, I "marked" my body again the other night. I have been wanting another one--and had a good idea of what I wanted and where I wanted it. Since I work in a corporate environment, I have to be careful of my appearance.
Can you guess where I put my tattoo?
fondly,
fit
Monday, June 01, 2009
My ABC's
A - Age: 39 and holding!
B - Bed size: King
C - Chore I hate: dusting
D - Dog's name(s): Princess & Cooper
E - Essential start my day item: Contacts and toothbrush
F - Favorite color: Green
G - Gold or silver: Silver
H - Height: 5'9"
I - Instrument I play: I own a guitar---does that count?
J - Job title: Executive Assistant, Wife, Mother, Daughter, Cook, Hugger, etc.
K - Kids: (4) Jake, Tyler, Miranda and Nicholas
L - Location: Dallas, TX area
M - Mom's name: Mom
N - Nicknames: Tonee, Ton
O - Outing most remembered: My first date with my husband...amazing!
P - Pet Peeve(s): fake people
Q - Quote from movie: (1) "You can't handle the truth!" (2) "negative, Ghost Rider, the pattern is full..." (3) "I can tell you I don't have money, but what I do have are a very particular set of skills; skills that I have acquired over a very long career; skills that make me a nightmare for people like you"
R - Running or walking: Running!!
S - Siblings: Ness & Josh
T - Time I wake up: 6:00 am
U - Underwear type: thong or commando (LOL)
V - Vegetables I like: cocoa bean, broccoli, green beans, squash, etc. (most of them)
W - Ways I like to be romanced: weekend getaways with my honey
X - X-rays I have had: head, heart, back
Y - Yummy favorite foods: anything with chocolate!
Z - Zoo animals I like: monkeys
Friday, May 29, 2009
Shoes or Skis?
Tyler, my just-turned-15-year-old ALSO WEARS A SIZE 14! I ordered his shoes, too, and they should be here next week sometime. I'll try to remember to take a picture of it, too!
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
So - where have I been?
S0, here I am---trying to figure out where to start....
Been doing LOTS of basketball watching. My oldest son plays on a select team and it is tournament season. Whew! There were several days that he had 3 or 4 games in a row! Got another one this weekend (of course), but I might be taking a hiatus. My son plays basketball EVERY day at school (spring training) and then practices with his select team (the Garland Jaguars) twice a week in the evenings (usually). Ironically, on his days off, all he wants to do is go up to the gym (Lifetime) and play basketball!! You'd think he might get tired of it---but nope! Guess you could say he loves it, huh?
My girlfriend, Kristi, turned 40 a week ago. A group of us went to dinner then to karoke. Wow---what fun! I've already told my husband what I want to do for my 40th (in September). We have a friend from church who is a DJ. I told Robert that I want a HUGE party with dancing and fun! I want to invite a ton of friends--some from church, some from my younger years, family, etc. It's going to be a BLAST! Although I enjoy a good glass of wine, this party will be non-alcoholic....since I have some friends and family members who don't partake. PLUS--my kids and some of their friends will be there and I don't think it would be a good example if someone were to drink too much. [I personally believe that drinking in excess is wrong...but not everyone holds my same opinion and I want to be able to relax and enjoy the party!] Anyway...should be a blast!
I know that Jennifer is ALMOST there----ready to deliver those beautiful twins! I can't wait to see the pics. If they look and act anything like Max, they will be gorgeous! Good luck, Jen....my prayers are with you!
fondly,
fit
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
All He Wants is My Time...
I think I have mentioned before about my struggles to stay in God's Word. It's more of a mental block for me. I grew up with "Bible drills", church 3 times a week, and the "read the Bible before your feet hit the floor" mentality. For those that know me, I'm NOT a morning person. I had a hard time understanding WHY I had to read the Bible first - even when I'm not awake yet! The speaker on the radio emphasized that God wants our time---whenever that is. We just have to be disciplined. He challenged us (me) to focus on Bible time for 7 days in a row. So--I'm going to rise to the challenge! [I can tell you it won't be first thing in the morning, though!]
fondly,
fit
Wednesday, May 06, 2009
Let's get up-to-date, shall we??
On the positive side, we were able to purchase another vehicle to replace the totaled suburban. Although we didn't get as much on the settlement, we were able to pay cash for an Excursion, albeit older. Regardless, it's PAID FOR. Woo Hoo...no car payments. Thank you, Dave Ramsey! There's no doubt in my mind that if we had not gone through Financial Peace University (Ramsey's program) that we would find ourselves in dire straits--seriously. We have much more to learn, of course, but we have made huge strides from where we were a couple of years ago. Praise God!
I'll post more later with pictures!!
fondly,
fit
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Much has happened since my last post...
So, there I was minding my own business driving to work. I had just dropped off my youngest son at school and it was seemingly a normal day. I stopped at a red light and glanced in my rearview mirror out of habit. Apparently, the car behind me decided that he didn't want to stop. BAM! He hit me going about 35-40 mph which threw me into the car in front of me, etc. It ended up a 5-car accident. My car is totaled. The car in front of me is totaled. Guess what I found out about the guy that hit me?!?!? His insurance is expired. Yep - so now I have a totaled car of which I still owed money on (It was almost paid off) and am getting low-balled on the value of my car. After all is said and done, here is the scenario:
After the payout on the now-totaled suburban, we will have about $5k. Obviously, that is NOT enough to purchase another vehicle (we require a large car!).
- I have insurance - he did not. All he got was a citation. I got the bill for paying for my car.
- I also get the bill for all my medical claims. I have learned that I am NOT "superwoman" and that sustaining an impact of this size DOES cause health issues.
- I had to miss four days at work - I get to use my limited sick days. He doesn't work, so he gets to go home to Mommy's and put his feet up on the couch and eat cheetos.
- His Mommy will pay to get her bumper fixed -- but it's not necessary due to the fact that he also has a large car so the only damage to his vehicle was his front bumper.
- Oh, yeah--I just remembered...we have a $500 deductible. Great -- now I get to pay that, too.
- I have therapy on my back 3 times a week, which means I will miss more work.
- I had begun my running regiment again -- but that's on hold now, too. So now I get to maintain my BMI, which I was trying to reduce to get to a healthy weight in order to add to the family.
Can you sense some hostility????
Remaining faithful in my walk with Christ is what matters. Understanding life is not.
Matthew 6:34 (The Message) "Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes."
Monday, April 13, 2009
Book Three!
Actually, it's a funny role reversal. My husband loves to read and reads almost every night. Just a few weeks ago, his head was constantly in a book and I made a comment, "you spend more time with that book than me..." OOPS... He remembered that statement and used it with me the other day.
gotta run--
fondly,
fit
Thursday, April 09, 2009
Consider me sucked in...[pun intended]
Thanks to my friend, Lori, I am now sucked into the Twilight series. If you know me, you understand the irony in that sentence. Historically, I am not your average "girl"--I'd say I'm more of a tomboy, but one that wears make-up and cares about what she looks like. Other than that qualification, I am usually the exception. I don't care for fru-fru stuff, I can't stand to shop (only when necessary), I love athletics more than watching t.v., and I would pick a good basketball game over pretty much anything.
Anyway, my friend started talking about the Twilight series about a year ago. I didn't think anything of it. Then, the movie was announced. She immediately started getting a group of girls together to go to the midnight showing on the first day it was released. I seriously laughed and thought she was crazy. Afterwards, I heard about how WONDERFUL the movie was multiple times, but was quickly told is paled in comparison to the book. Again, I didn't think anything about it--not for me.
My daughter had a birthday a couple weeks ago and was given the movie as a gift. She begged me for several days to watch it with her--but I declined. Finally, she and I were the only ones home one afternoon and I agreed to watch it with her. She promptly fell asleep (slumber party the night before!), but I continued to watch. Really--it WAS a good movie. A little on the eerie/outlandish side, but nonetheless good.
The next day I decided to take a break from my normal routine (craziness) and sit and read a good book. She brought me the Twilight book and told me I should read it. This challenged me to see if the book actually was better than the movie. Suffice it to say, I read the book in about two days. [I love to read, just don't normally have the time...] And it was better... Sunday we went to Lori's house and she gave me the next book in the series, New Moon. I started reading it Monday and will finish it up tonight. It's good, too....and, I'll probably be part of the next "group of girls" that drags their butts to the movie theatre at midnight-----
fondly,
fit
Monday, April 06, 2009
Hijacked Blackberry!
So, now were are involved in THREE sports...baseball, basketball and volleyball. Go, White Sox, Jaguars and Serve-ivors!
Thursday, April 02, 2009
Fru-Fru-ness
Monday, March 30, 2009
Prayer is. . .
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Back to reality...
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Only TWO more days!!
Isn't he just PRECIOUS?!?!?
And--here's a picture of Jake's JV basketball:
Friday, March 06, 2009
Game Day!
Wednesday, March 04, 2009
Jake + Coach = Nosebleed!!
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Overwhelmed. . .
Ultimately, I MUST give this situation to God. He is in control, no matter how much I like to think that I am. I'll post some more later--got to put my arms around this today.
fondly,
fit
Monday, February 16, 2009
UPDATE--Doctor Appt moved up!
Upward = Completed
Ever since the Disney movie, Cars, came out, he refers to all trophies as "Piston Cups." Here is an excerpt from our conversation:
Me: "Wow, Nick, did you have fun?"
Nick: "yeah, that was lots of fun!"
Me: "I like your trophy..."
Nick: "It's not a trophy, it's a Piston Cup."
Me: "HAHA, no it's actually called a trophy."
Nick: "Mom...mine is called a Piston Cup!"
So -- from here on out, all trophies are called Piston Cups, per Nick.
fondly, fit
Friday, February 13, 2009
I still get butterflies. . .
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Hill Country....Here we come!!
Random numbers for today:
30 minutes on the cross-trainer this morning
1 video showing on the gym's television that was HIGHLY offensive
1 email to General Manager of gym to complain (if they want to claim to be a "family" gym, then they need to act like it!)
60 minutes from the time I sent the email to the time the manager called me!
Dozens of phone calls and emails complaining about the same video
Immediately expect to see the video gone! Woo hoo.... [it was awful, seriously]
4 pounds I've lost
10 hugs I received from my son who was allowed to acquire my smartphone (I upgraded)
4 weeks until my daughter starts volleyball
4 weeks until I start coaching my daughter's volleyball team
That's all for now!
fondly,
fit
Friday, January 23, 2009
It's that time.......time for the Biggest Loser event at work. We are in teams of three and we have chosen a team name. Our name is "MacNPeas" [one mac-daddy and two peas in a pod]. We weigh in today, so I am eating a big lunch before I go. The numbers will probably make me want to cry....but I must do it. Weight just kinda creeps up on ya. It's just not right....
I shall be lighter!
Wish me luck,
fit